Yea... Shows with some of the more ... different aspects of anime tropes aren't likely to turn someone into an otaku. Haruhi is about as extreme in terms of some of the fetish aspects (bunny girls, Haruhi cosplay raping Mikuru, etc...) as you are likely to see on a list like this, and that is because it is being done in parody.
Mysterious Girlfriend X isn't on the list either! LOL!
Give it a few years and Bodacious Space Pirates (Moretsu Pirates) may make it onto these lists. It has massive mainstream appeal.